well there are 119 days left until Scott comes home from his course. The morning did not start off that well, the girls were up at 630am and cranky and poopy, so i changed them and gave them a bottle, then i had a quick shower since i knew that the boys would be up soon. They got up at 7am, they played in their room for a bit, the girls came downstairs with me and had some puffed wheat and yogurt, then the boys came down and we had breakfast and went out and played outside before we left for daycare. Chase decided that while mommy was busy tending to his sisters that he would take a rock to the side of her van and scratch the crap out of it. There is a huge scratch down the left hand passenger sliding door and on the left hand drivers door as well. So he went on a time out until we left for daycare (about 10 mins) then he also went on time out when he got to the sitters as i was still mad at him.My day alone went well, i went shopping and then came home and hung out in the nice weather and tanned, i took the dog for a walk, and cleaned the house.I went to pick up the kids at 330pm and Carson didnt want to leave, Chase was being rude to the sitter and they didnt want to put their seatbelts on. Then we went to go pick the girls up and Chase didnt feel like helping mommy so i had to get one of the ladies to help me get the bags and the girls in the van to go home. We got home and the boys were pretty good and the girls were cranky so we came inside to play. I played with the girls for a bit while the boys kept themselves occupied with the tv and their cars.I was making dinner and trying to keep the girls occupied as well, so i was feeding them as well as keeping an eye on the dinner and Chase and Carson were constantly hurting eachother so i told them to just stay on time out until dinner was ready. We were sitting and eating and Chase didnt want the hotdogs and Carson didnt want to eat at all. The girls ate really well for once, Chase finished his dinner so i washed some cherries for him and he ate some of those, Carson didnt want the dinner but he wanted cherries so i told him he needed to finish his dinner and he could have some cherries, well the girls were done so i cleaned them up a little and put them in the living room to play while i was cleaning the kitchen after dinner, Chase was in there playing and all of a sudden Aggie starts screaming and crying so i asked Chase what he did to her and he told me nothing, so i kept asking him and he kept denying it. I told him to go on timeout until he wanted to tell me what he did and then he told me that he KICKED AGGIE IN THE FACE because she was playing with one of his many millions of toys that he wasnt even playing with at that time, so he went right to bed.I took the girls upstairs to give them a bath and put them to bed since they were so cranky and i left Carson downstairs to eat (hes 3 he knows what to do) and when i came back down he told me that he was done eating, when i asked him where it was he looked at the garbage can, i looked inside and he had thrown his dinner out, so he went right to bed as well.I called Scott for some ideas on disciplining Chase for what he did today (the scratches and the kicking) and he didnt have any ideas. I tried to take away his fave toys and he didnt care, i told him i was gonna take his money and use it to fix the van and he didnt care, i dont know what else to do, he is stubborn just like his mom, and he does not care about the consequences. I think i just need to sleep on it and see if something pops up.It is now 840pm and the house is quiet. The kitchen is clean. The laundry is done and packed away. The floors are vacuumed and clean. The dog is laying beside me and i am resting for the night.